Quick References featured in the App:
The app will have buttons to press when you are dealing with problems- like a personal assistant.
You click the emotion and it gives suggestions:
Examples:
1. if you're upset - seek and give space don't expect apologies keep it professional
2. avoid potential threat - decide on fight or flight or monetary peace offering assume they have weapon, don't try to reason with angry or intoxicated people
3. feeling low self-esteem- that means you are focusing on others.
4. focus on yourself and your projects and live for your future spouse
5. avoid manipulators- they will offer free things to make you feel obligated to them avoid premarital intimacy
6. self intimacy with toys is necessary. it's sex with self. if you allow others to do it they will control you.
7. deal with angry person : give and seek space, text email not talk in person or phone,
8. focus better : stand up desk, find conducive environ, do quick exercises
9. avoid being sad - who you are mantra, ideal state is neutral peace , not necessarily happiness, allow self time to be sad loneliness- we are only one being, so always alone, but will feel complete if you journal and spend spare time and money doing what you want to do
10. envious - envy is a disapproval of a misuse of body or money. if someone is rich and has good genetics and they are using their body and money in a loving and constructive way to build family and society, then you wouldn't envy them. they are creating future attractive bodies for you to reincarnate into
11. stressed out - how you feel is based upon how you are breathing. breathe deeply for 4 sec hold for 8 exhale for 7
12. feel underpaid? - work as if you are making a higher wage- develop industrious habits, only quit job if you have another one
13. upset at parents? - when you label someone a parent, it is a role of authority, and it will make you submissive in general. label them by first name basis. you can better serve each other by playing the roles of spiritual siblings. if you do not share the same values as they do, you have no moral obligation to them and it's a lie.
14. upset at children - be their professional guardian - label them on a first name basis. as children get past 18, you should give guardianship only to those who want it... because there may be others who could appreciate it more. discipline when young.
15. They are not listening to you because they either are not mature enough to understand your reasoning in which case they will need physically discipline.
16. if they are old enough, you should reason with them. remember your job is to teach them to fend for themselves, not be their friends.
17. only when they are older and meet their own needs can they choose to stay connected with you if you have the same values or not. this applies especially to Men.
18. for women, I recommend if the woman wants, they stay at home if possible and be pure and ready for a husband.
19. not all women's families can afford to safeguard them like this. not all women will want this. upset at siblings - is this person your spiritual family?
20. only stay personally connected to people who sexual tension- give the opposite gender space. only approach someone if you are ready for marriage
Here are the steps of the Daily Action Plan to Prepare for a Great Marriage:
- Write a daily love letter email update to your future spouse, including progress you are making towards her- perhaps a picture of your work day, money you've saved, expressions that you are living your life for her-
- for both men and women, practice responsible self-love techniques such as meeting your own basic needs through focused work,
- masturbation so that you aren't being controlled by your desires or others trying to seduce you,
- and meeting your emotional wants by creative activities, exercise and self-affirming self-talk, journaling etc
- wear a purity ring, indicative of your commitment to your values and future spouse, who will share your values
- every day, glance through a list of key qualifiers and disqualifiers you have for your future spouse. this list is really you confidently saying who you are and being very selective about a spouse. add to the list as needed.
- avoid any premarital intimacy because it is unloving and interferes with other people and their potential spouses. keep a healthy space between the genders, just like many cultures have done for centuries.
- wherever you are in public, assume that people may try to seduce you, and avoid them by not accepting free things such as transportation, food, compliments, especially from the opposite gender.
- when you are in public, feel great that you are already married and do not need to worry about people being attracted to you
- and encourage them on the path to true love and being ready for their spouse as well.
- be as healthy as possible because you can only equally match up with a spouse who is the same health and life expectancy as you.
- When you think you are financially and emotionally ready for marriage, or for supporting your children on this journey, do research on that or further consult me or look at my video publications for insights on effectively selecting the right person.
